Cleaning out the closet

I must confess, my daughter has too many clothes. Most of them weren’t bought by me,  as we have wonderful hand-me-downs, and we both love them! Hand-me-downs were my favorite when I was little and my daughter shares that, her excitement for them is immeasurable. She’s also a bit of a pack-rat, like me. Thus, Too many clothes equal Too Many Choices, which equals a meltdown before 8 a.m. every day.  That is going to change this year…or at least I'm doing everything I can to change it.

Skye started Kindergarten this year.  So, the week before school officially began, I made a date with her to go through her closet. It was almost a mini-shopping spree as we tried on all her clothes. I had a two-fold plan: 

1. Weed out the clothes she had outgrown
2. Commit to wearing what we were going to keep.

My daughter was a trooper and tried on everything I asked her to.  We celebrated when pants were too small, cheering because she had "grown SO much".  We made several piles…the keepers, the hand-me-down givebacks, and the giveaways.  She wanted a fourth pile that she could sell at our garage sale, but I convinced her we should give them away.  

It was tough to convince her to give away a few items that she LOVED, but in the end I told her we needed too so we could buy new school clothes.  That worked like a charm, and I was delighted.  It was a smooth process with absolutely no meltdowns. Only  a few tears came at the end as she laid her head on the giveaway pile and said good-bye to her old clothes.  But it didn't take her long to bounce up with a huge smile at the prospect of filling up the holes in her closet with lots of 6-T's! 

She's so big now…

"All My Children"...ends

I did many interviews before the Olympic Games in 1992, and the three most often asked questions were…

1. How did you get your name?
2. What do you dislike?
3. What can't you live without?

My answers were always the same, with questions two and three being answered  Cheesecake and "All My Children".  

I grew up in an "All My Children" family.  My grandpa Charlie, my dad's father, and my mom watched it every single day they could.  I grew up with Angie and Jessie, Jenny and Greg, and of course Mrs. Erica Kane.  I was so involved in the soap opera that when Jenny died, I almost vowed never to watch it again. Almost. Then, all my friends (tons of them guys) were coincidentally into the show in college.  We would gather at our friend’s dorm to catch the episodes.

Somehow, after the Olympics, the show found out that I was a fan and reached out to my agent to see if I wanted to play myself on one of the episodes.  I’m not sure who was more excited…oh, who am I kidding, my mom was off the charts elated!!  It was the only time she said, "You cannot do this without me."  And I didn't.  She played an extra walking behind me in the hospital.  

My part was with Stewart Chandler.  I was visiting the Children's ward in the Pine Valley Hospital, but I was lost.  So I stopped and asked Stewart, "Excuse me.  Do you know where the Children's ward is?" My scene was very short, I at some point I said, "Oh, I happen to have my medals right here" and pulled them out.  Classic!  I had my picture taken with as many people as possible and snapped one with Susan Lucci and my mom.  I ran into Kelly Ripa a few years ago and said, "Do you remember when I came on the show?"  She smiled and said, "Oh yes.  I looked like I had eaten myself."  It made me giggle. It was a great way to describe my look at that time also.  Maybe it was too much cheesecake, which they served once we wrapped.

Made Mom's year! Mom & I with Susan Lucci

Thank you All My Children for all the entertainment, and for giving me one of my favorite post-Olympic medals memories.  You were so kind to me, and made my mom and I feel so welcome. Daytime TV will never be the same.

You will truly be missed.

You know I loved AMC if I'm willing to post this photo of myself :)

Janet Evans' Comeback

In the last few months, several news stories have been published about Janet’s comeback. But it was still surreal to be up at 4:30 a.m. standing by a pool and watching Janet walk in for her 5 a.m. practice last week. We looked at each other and immediately started giggling.  We were both thinking, can you believe we are back at a pool together…giggling because for just a second, we were 17 again. Was Barcelona really 19 years ago?...

I can honestly say I couldn’t do it, attempt to make an Olympic Trials again at this stage in my life. I tried in ’96, and my heart just wasn’t in it. You have to both love the sport and have the desire to be at that level. You have to be able to give 100% mentally and physically. You have to be able to flip the switch in your life, and Janet just can. We’re both very satisfied with our Olympic experiences (she has a few more than I do), but it’s the desire to be in the water, competing that’s the difference.

"You can't really take away my competitive spirit," she said. "If I do this, I want to do it well. Over the last few months, I've seen I can manage my life and my schedule while doing this. It has fulfilled my expectations on every level. I feel like I can be back in the game." – Janet quoted from an AP story in USA Today.

Don’t think that just because she’s getting back into Olympic form, that it takes anything away from her home life. Janet is a mom first! During her "dry-land" workout, her blackberry was never far away. No matter what, she answers whenever "HOME" calls.  She says the time and focus at the pool actually make her a better mother. How awesome. And you could tell…she was definitely itching to get her afternoon workout wrapped up so she could go home and squeeze her little ones.

Janet is truly amazing. When we met to do the Yahoo!Sports interview at what she calls "their little beach cottage."  I called it PERFECT with dark floors and elegant, cozy furniture.  They were doing a little work on the place, so like any mom, Janet was multitasking, juggling our interview with construction workers and her kids. It was great to be with in her home, watching her daughter being a “big helper” and seeing her son give fantastic hugs.

It’s inspiring, as a former elite athlete and a mother, to see Janet make this journey. And it’s even more refreshing to see that she is 100% doing this for fun and with a tremendous love for the sport.  She genuinely loves to swim, but it is not her life. Her family comes first, and that was very apparent to me when even after her day, she made time for date night with her hubby.

Click here to see her episode of Yahoo!Sports Elite Athlete Workouts.

Kindergarten in Español

Skye was in preschool for two years. But she hit the “Big Time” this year and started Kindergarten. She rides the bus to her new school, where she's learning her subjects in both English and Spanish. A fairly new program to our area called "Dual Immersion".

In DI, the kids are taught content in both English and Spanish and at half-day, they flip flop so that each day, half their day is in each language. Mind you, they are not learning Spanish, they are learning Math and Science in Spanish. But, they will soak the language up like sponges.

Although we were told by the administration and teachers that kids will be frustrated in the beginning, and I mean, wouldn't you be if for half the day a teacher spoke to you in a language you didn't understand. But we’ve seen nothing but excitement and an incredible enthusiasm for learning from Skye. She comes home saying something new in Spanish every day...And I try my best to ask her questions in my broken Spanish to be a part of her world. I truly feel that she is having fun with this new world, and it warms my heart to see her building confidence in the classroom!

Students in the DI program will gradually begin to comprehend, and be expected to respond in Spanish as well. By the fourth grade, the kids should be fluent in Spanish, both reading and writing. How amazing is that! As a parent, I just need to encourage her every day to not give up on a class if she gets frustrated. But so far, so good!

We had a choice as to whether we wanted to put Skye in regular Kindergarten or the Dual Immersion program. I speak about three years worth of high school Spanish, and my husband is fluent in German. We both wish we spoke more languages, and we feel it’s such a gift to be given the opportunity to learn another language at an early age. To us, it was a no brainer. Now, we need to pull out our Rosetta Stone and get to learning because if we don't, her Spanish will pass us by.